When you feel your are in the position to say “I told you so” to someone, be careful. It is a low level pleasure, an easy way to strut and swagger (oh, I learned two new words, see ?). Proud because you were right ? “So there !” ? Noooo…
One of the elegance of life is to be in this position and just shup.
One of the elegance of life is to be in this position is to be friendly and helpul. The other person will know that you could have said “I told you so, blabla” and you don’t. That’s nice.
(to shup is my way to say “to shut up”, don’t pay attention)
Have a nice day !