There are some moments in life where you really need to “stop and think”. Armies of difficulties or huge boredom, impossible choices or stupid auto-illusions : you need help, obviously!
You can ask your best friend or a specialist, your sister or anyone :
What should I do?
This is a good question, and you’ll probably listen carefully…
But there’s another way to ask, which is :
What would you do if you were in my place?
And this is a totally different question. You should, then, listen closer. Your partner will maybe ask… “Really?”. Then the answer won’t be the same…
You can ask the two questions in a row, asking for both.
Then you can follow, or not, but the second question requires your attention : your interlocutor will probably watch your next steps. It’s a question of trust, an intimate process.
Thanks for reading!
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