The problem with words : they put labels on you. If you’ve been “gifted” in your childhood, you’re pretty sure that you’re “gifted”. But are you really? Where and how?
There are plenty of colors, nuances, gradations, in many directions, in your gifted personality.
No you don’t find “two types of humans : the gifted and the non gifted”, right? It NOT only a IQ thing…
Take the whole brain engine, get closer, watch it. Gifted people can be :
- Funnier or darker.
- Faster or slower-deeper.
- More sophisticated or simply shining.
- Craving conversations with other gifted, or isolated.
- Big picture or mini-details seekers.
- Learn differently, exploring or thinking.
- Artistic or not at all.
- Intense or lost.
- Introvert or the contrary.
- Independent or leaders.
- Controlling or easy.
- Lazy or big workaholics.
- Anxious or happy.
- Successful or in living in ideas and patterns.
- Organized or messy-messy.
- Etc. Etc.
Almost each of these lines could become an article !
I like to think that gifted adults can be “more intelligent”, but it’s not necessary. They are all different! They… operate differently, that’s for sure. And they evolve, too.
It can really be a problem in society, sometimes. I remember this example in a company, given in a French book written by B. Millêtre (“Petit guide à l’usage des gens intelligents qui ne se trouvent pas très doués” – “Little guide for intelligent people who find they’re not that skilled”).
A big meeting : a new big project is exposed. 95% of the audience who consider things in terms of causes and consequences – “If this, then that” – will nod (or they are angry if it’s more work for them, haha). But there’s always one or two guys who will raise a hand because they immediately detected the flaws in the new organization. They see patterns, structures, they can almost “feel” the forces in play : the Big Picture. And of course, they will be taken for a pain in the neck.
Gifted is not necessarily socially gifted, right?
Have a nice day!
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