I wrote thrice about this idea : it’s a bit too easy to put “mental disorders” labels on people :
I don’t mean you won’t meet any real wolves in the forest of people, but that’s not what I’m writing about here.
Merely, it’s some common sense to realize that :
- We have all “traits” of mental disorders, we have all, with different shades, a little of bipolarity, narcissism, schizophrenia, etc…
- This varies along the days, the weeks, the months, the years. We are never the same, we are not steady, we evolve, we react, and this is why labels will never work to know someone (but it’s OK to study a moment), it’s this concept : Haecceity.
I read a lot about narcissistic perversion personality, manipulative people who live on this pattern : finding a good person, seducing her (or him, but let’s call her a her), mentally make her crazy with paradoxical communication, then vampyring her – feeling joy over her perdition and destroyed life. Until the next prey.
If you want to know more, you can Google it, or read this thread in Quora.
I will write very soon about how they seduce their empathetic prey (there’s a trick about finding prey’s flaw). This article just describes how they FEED : seeing the other’s distress.
How they do it is too long too describe, but let’s say they use paradoxes :
At the start the pervert is evidently very cautious, he is smiling, supportive, attentive, an ideal partner! The victim falls under his charm. Later, first incidents arrive, hurting remarks, aggressive looks, unexpected or violent reaction. But after that quickly come pleasant moment when the pervert reacts as if nothing had ever happened, and the victim often asks herself if she did not dream up the unpleasant scenes…
When his victim is powerless, lost, disoriented, they hit, and then comes this huge feeling of joy. And they need a witness : this nasty joy has to be expressed :
“She’s so weak! I’ve been such a BITCH! I massively injured her pride! She’s like a mouse now. You should have heard what I told her. She was like : << what did I do? >>. HAHAHA”.
This is a real source of joy and comfort for this person. “I hurt her – that’s great – listen!”
Low form of gaiety, I told you!
What do you do about this kind of person? What if you were a wolf? Write a short story about this disorder? Do you have examples? What are others low form of gaiety? What happens when (and after) you realize you have jubilation in harming people? What do you do if you’re 15% NPD, if you’re 30%? Why does every article I read about this say that the Narcissistic Personality Disorder persons will never, ever accept and understand he’s like that, and thus there’s no cure ever?
Thanks for reading!
This one is interesting :