Some friendships don’t need any oath.
It’s just there.
These days I’m happy because I found the best thinker I could imagine.
Paul Valéry (1871-1945) – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_Val%C3%A9ry – a French poet, essayist and philosopher.
For me, he’s even stronger than Nietzsche!
In France, he’s known as a poet. That’s all…
Thus, I’m devouring his notebooks, his essays, his poetry : thousands of pages.
This guy is a genius! You can find his notebooks on the web. If you need seeds…
And, well, I read also books from André Gide (1869-1951) – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andr%C3%A9_Gide
Hence, I discovered they were friends.
I just ordered and got an almost 1000 pages book of their correspondence.
I was so glad to get it! As I was opening the box tonight, I thought : “Two of the best thinkers of their time!”…
…which I found on the back cover of the book :
“This friendship is a dream come true : two of the most gifted and most clever writers of their generation met at the beginning of their careers”.
Nothing, absolutely nothing (they were very different) could work loose or detach this friendship.
Valéry says it’s not about literature or common or complementary tastes. It was the faculty to follow each other, to instantly adapt, to guess each other with happiness…
In an article of Le Monde, the French newspaper, I found this :
“Leur dialogue de dandys supérieurs porte sur les moyens et la manière, jamais sur les principes et les fins”.
“Their dandy dialog is always about the means and the ways, never on the principles and the ends”.
Most of you will get it, right?
Well, that’s all, dear. I just wanted to share!
Thanks for reading!
“…and nothing is more certain than an inclination which exist in itself, without any argument, without common feelings or ideas – like with no reason”.